You, my dear, are certainly free to dress any way that you like.
I dress more for myself than for anyone else.
I throw on jeans and a t-shirt, no makeup, most of the time.
Occasionally I'll go a week or two dressing myself up a bit, with a bra and makeup, hair, etc.
That's for me. It is sometimes fun to have men give me the eye, because I'm 63, and still "got it". I get to ignore them all because I'm a lesbian.
I don't do that very often. After all, I'm a top, an aging stud... but I don't make any special effort to dress the part .
My bottom line? Dress however you feel like, each day. Don't defend your decision. It's *your* decision, and no one else's.
Be confident in yourself.
The only person's opinion about you that matters is yours.
I think, already, that you are an amazing young lady!
--weezi--💜🌈🌻🙏🏼