Who just grabs anyone at first meeting? I mean, I am a hugger, but I don’t just hug everyone. If I decide that I’d like a hug, I start moving my arms up, but ready to change to a hand shake at the first hint that that is what they want. And *that* is at the AA Hut, where we are members of a group that is supposed to love each other, but many people have issues, so….A stranger? Not bloody likely! Not a man or a woman…