Well, let me throw something in from “left field”.

I’m a 61 y/o trans-woman. I never had a vaginoplasty.

After having been a “ts call girl” in the 90s, I think that I can, with all humility, claim to be an expert at receiving anal penetration. See-”How to receive anal sex, in plain language”.

I quite enjoy sex with,(some), men, having a variety of orgasms,(no erection or ejaculation). I’ve been on hrt for 27 years.

I do find that, especially in the “new” sexual “climate”, some quite nice women have shown an unmistakable interest in me.

As they have probably seen the porno vids that seem to be popular, I’m guessing that they may be expecting me to achieve an erection. Most however, don’t know that I’m trans, and certainly not that I have a penis…🙄

Viagra? I take “ismo”,(isosorbide mononitrate), for chest pain that I’ve had in the past, but not in a couple of years now…

I’m thinking that, if I develop a close relationship with anyone who wishes for me to have erections, my only option would be to consult my doctor about the possibility of stopping the ismo?

Supposedly, the hrt should only preclude “spontaneous” erections, but I have none at all. So far, that’s been fine with me. Typically, straight men don’t want an erection on the woman they’re having sex with…I’ve never had a single inquiry or complaint…

Hhmmm…maybe not put the cart before the horse….oh well…just a lonely old lady, aimlessly cogitating…

I enjoy your essays greatly!

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