Well, I don’t really know. That was a light hearted thing. I’ve yet to find a man who knows how to make love to a woman.

I’ve been exploring my options with women lately and I think that a man would have to really know what he’s doing, or be willing to take direction.

Having had the responses of a woman and the emotional and romantic sensibilities of a woman for nearly thirty years, I find that men are just too clumsy…. and I like the responses of a woman when making love, you know, rather than just fucking?

And…. that’s just the sex….

The whole approach to romance and making a real partnership…well.

Anyway, I’m 61, was a call girl in San Diego in the 90s, so the “typical routine” is pretty boring for me. I need all of the real emotional connection, or it’s just not worth the trouble…without actual love and affection…..no thanks…

I’ve heard that there are men who can do that, but I have yet to meet one.

I live in Greenville NC. I’m a friend of Bill W,(AA). I go to meetings at the AA Hut, right beside the old salvation army and church. On Dickenson Ave. Sober and clean since September 21, 2018. And I really wasn’t so bad before that…

Good luck with your project.

Peace Love Kindness Respect the more you give the more you get 😍 start with yourself 😉 because you deserve it ❤️🙏🏼

PS: I’m a “no-op”. But “it” won’t just pop up. I think that would take all of the aforementioned romance and maybe some Viagra 🤣. I do have several kinds of wonderful orgasms, so “it” doesn’t have to be involved. I’ve been receiving anal penetration,(not so much lately), for nearly 30 years, and have no problem of any kind with that. Mama has a squeeze box.🤭😎

Oh, I did have a “husband”, for a little over a year, years ago, but I was changing, due to the hrt. He, Daryl, finally said, “Louise, I’m a gay man and I just can’t live with a woman.”

So.. also, in case you didn’t catch it before. I’ve been totally passing for 25 years. I haven’t been misgendered since the early 90s, either in person or on the phone.