“We look to create emotional connections prior to sexual relations so if children result, the man will be there to provide for his offspring.”

I don’t know if it’s purely the expectation of children, I’m definitely not going to get pregnant.

I do, however, need an emotional connection to a lover for there to be a possibility of my fulfilment. Without it, it’s just mechanical.

Though I suppose that may have a lot to do with my history of sex work…

Anyway, as always, great essay!

With the social-distancing, we need “virtual” hugs and kisses, from me to you!🥰

Peace Love Kindness Respect the more you give the more you get 😍 start with yourself 😉

PS: Sorry about the hugs and kisses, for some reason I thought I was reading Yael Wolfe. Nevertheless I send you hugs!