WeeziSbaby
2 min readOct 4, 2020

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Is everyone pan-sexual?

The Kinsey report and more recent sex-studies through the years have established that somewhere in the general neighborhood of 10% of people are totally gay. 10% of people are totally hetero. Leaving around 80% of the human race somewhere in the middle, in thought and fantasy, if not in outward appearance/behavior.

The Patriarchal Dominance Hierarchy and it’s attendant rape-culture have, for thousands of years, enforced an arbitrary gender binary, and hetero-normative sexuality, by use of fear, shame, and often physical violence. Many people,(less, by a relatively small number, these days), are conditioned by this pressure, from birth on, to be terrified of others discovering their "horrible secret". It becomes so reinforced that it often becomes a true phobia, hysterical and unamenable to logic.

When that fear is triggered by merely, perhaps only, the sight of someone living their life out loud, their "horrible secret" is poked with a sharp stick. With adrenaline fueled terror, they can’t help but have a fight-or-flight response. They may retreat even deeper into denial, or lash out, too often with tragic consequences...

Solution; there’s Fear and there’s Love. Live in Love. Save your fear for when a tiger is stalking you in the savannah, or you step off the curb to find a city bus bearing down on you. And, who knows, maybe the 10% at either end of the spectrum are simply better liars....?

From me to you; Peace Love Kindness Respect the more you give the more you get 😍 start with yourself 😉 because you deserve it ❤️🙏🏼💜🙏🏼

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WeeziSbaby

Bye y'all. it's been real. I have a new Chromebook, but I prefer to write these little "aside" pieces on my phone, curled up in my comfy chair. always love; w