Nice try Cassie.
The inner anal sphincter is 3,4, perhaps 6 or 7 inches in, depending on the individual. (I’ll allow that mine may be much further in than the average person).
You did get the pushing out part right. Well done.
For a more complete, detailed, “nuts and bolts” guide from an old, retired, former pre-op transgender woman-call girl,(I was Honey, in 1990s San Diego), with over 30 years experience;
“How to receive anal sex, in plain language.” by WeeziSbaby https://link.medium.com/q84aIa6jl7
Well done Cassie, especially about squatting being the best way to start.
--weezi--💖🙏🏼💜🙏🏼🦄🥳
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