My goodness. That was interesting…

I don’t know what to tell you, hunni.

I began my transition at the age of 35,(1993), in San Diego, when I left the Navy.

I went for every kind of sex that I could find, as my breasts began to bud, and I didn’t have to hide my sexuality and gender…

Having had a lot of sex, with an unknowable number of people,(mostly men), I think that what I would want newly beginning transwomen to know is that, put simply…

Men: 1-arousal. 2-Orgasm.

Women: 1-desire.2-arousal.3-orgasm.

I find it simply not possible, or necessary, at 61 years old, to masturbate, except on rare occasion. Personally, and I think that it is very personal and variable between different people, I don’t experience strong desire without a partner physically present. The mental, emotional and sexual connection between us is the dynamic that that elevates our desire. It can’t be rushed, or “techniqued”. It’s an entirely naturally growing connection, a feeling of…I lack words…sorry…

I just realized, apon rereading…take the “mental” out of it…when the emotional and sexual connection is made, the mental element is a hindrance to good sex. Feeling the feelings, the…the best word I can think of right now is “spiritual” connection…it’s a mode, or space that is not conducive to logical thought…it’s a state of being……oh well, you’ll know when you find it…never mind…

Peace Love Kindness Respect the more you give the more you get 😍