I’ve had quite a few times when I felt I should tell a man, or a woman, that I’m trans.

Most men appreciate that I told them, before any kissing and heavy petting had occurred. Because of this, I suspect, I’ve never had one get angry. They seem relieved.

Some men,(the highly-sexed), are simply turned on even more, but those are definitely not relationship material. They do, however provide a little “relief”, occasionally.

Women, straight or lesbian, are almost always shocked, then keep their distance, looking at me as if I might explode or something. When they have observed for long enough to see that I am not the insane, sexual predator that they were led to expect, we ease back into our friendship.

There is, of course, the occasional female sex-phreak. This is just as unattractive to me as the man-slut, though the occasional dalliance is, well, nice.

I have never been “highly-sexed”, ever. At sixty years of age, I am more interested in real intimacy and a sharing partnership.

Wish me luck?

Update, nearly two years later, Aug 28; I have realized that I can never truly be “in love” with a man. Only a woman can hold the key to my heart.-weezi-❤️🙏🏼