Interesting. I’ve been telling women for years that being able to have orgasms, or better orgasms was accomplished by being able to truly relax and receive…

I clearly remember the first time. I was a newly minted trans-woman. I had been on my own journey to new kinds of orgasms…

My two roommates were gay men,(nothing but friendship between us), who were much more advanced in the erotic arts than many might suspect.

Bud, the more matriarchal/patriarch, if you know what I mean, investigated my problem using his vast knowledge and experience.

I explored and experimented in the absolutely hedonistic gay and swinger communities in southern California at that time.

Sitting in a chair at a nail salon in Hillcrest, San Diego, I found myself discussing orgasms with with the young lady doing my nails.

Though it was about 25 years ago, I remember it like it was yesterday.

Telling her, a cis-woman, how to have an orgasm struck me as a bit odd, but I know better now.

Perhaps she didn’t feel completely safe with her partner? Maybe she wasn’t comfortable accepting, receiving, pleasure?

I told her that it’s not 'wrong’, in any way, to abandon yourself to pleasure, in fact, you absolutely do 'deserve it’. In fact you have an obligation to yourself to feel good. You are a wonderful person, a beautiful woman. You deserve so much more than to only give.

Ahem, that goes for anyone who’s reading this now, too.

Thanks again Yael ❤️

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PS; it’s my right nipple!

--weezi--💖🙏🏼💜🙏🥳