I was on the maximum dose of effexor for twenty years. I had no desire for sex. I “accommodated” a man, occasionally, simply enjoying the intimacy, the pleasure of giving.

My dosage has been reduced for several months, but I still have no desire to masturbate. I can only orgasm with a partner. I suspect,(hope), that if I fall in love again, I’ll be more enthusiastic about sex.

I’ve grown so used to my condition, that I’m not sure that I even want an increase in my desire.

I’ll just wait and see what the future holds.

😐