I understand. I went through pretty much the same thing, only with a daughter.
Now alone, getting a check from SSDI and one from the VA, I have finally learned to live within my means.
My mother was fairly well-off, in her later years, and I got used to her being a no-questions-asked safety net.
She died and my sisters stole all of the money….I should have been more careful. It’s not like I didn’t know that they were capable of it.
I’m much happier now, though. I’m sober and clean and living within my means. But then, I don’t have anyone to support but myself…
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