I still get that kind of stuff at my age. Not as much on Medium, but on other platforms.
I've come to regard it as background noise.
People say things. People do things.
I don't give them rent-free space in my head.
It's sort of a buzzing in the background that's always there. With the right perspective it's easy to ignore.
Probably helps that I was fed up to 'here' with men long ago.
They hold absolutely no allure, for me.
God bless you if they do for you.
--weezi--💜🌈🙏🏼🌻🤠