I concur.

As a trans-woman, I often have to deal with men, and women, who are excited in their desire to hook up with a “shemale”, like the ones that they’ve seen in pornos. That’s not physically possible for me, nor do I wish it to be.

In my earlier career as a call girl, I had more than my share of “kink”, which, with only one exception, had no effect on me, whatsoever.

Retired and sixty years old, I’m only attracted to relaxed, comfortable, closeness…true intimacy, mental, emotional, physical…in short…vanilla.

Thank you for another essay that strikes the perfect note with me.

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