Certainly very interesting. I’m transgender, MtoF, transitioning in 1993/4/5, at the age of 34/5.
When I was a young man, I learned from my first girlfriend to approach sex slowly, with a slow build up of increasing desire, all through our day/evening. I learned to show my desire in teasing, creeping, slowly intensifying increments. She learned to not try to excite me too much, too quickly.(we were teenagers, after all).
A college girl, who took me home,(her apartment), from a nightclub one night when I was too drunk to drive, was the fastest to cum of any woman I’ve ever been with. Often, she wouldn’t let me go on with foreplay for more than a minute, or less. Within five complete in and out “strokes”, she convulsed, and her eyes rolled back in her head.
The first time it happened I was shocked and frightened, thinking that she’d had an epileptic seizure, or possibly something worse(?).
I was thinking of calling for an ambulance,(no 911 then), when she stilled. I moved forward and looked at her face, as she opened her eyes and, half-lidded, smiled a little satisfied smile.
I’ve never run across anyone like that again.
She fell head over heels for me, but I was such a drunken fool then that it didn’t last long…
My wife of ten years…. We practically had to swim to the side of the bed afterwards. She loved to ride me aggressively, grinding into me. Her clit was buried, very deep. It was not possible to get it to show itself at all…but her gushing “waters” told the tale.
The first time I ate her pussy, she said, “no! Don’t do that! That’s naaasty!,(with a grin and a giggle 😉). Every time after that, she repeated the same, and when I got my mouth on her inner labia, there was always some kind of flavoring, usually cherry or strawberry, but always, “No! Don’t do that! That’s naaasty!,(smiling giggles 😁).
When I came out as trans, she, an uneducated philipina, went completely 'round the bend’, forced me out, divorced me, and told everyone that I had “abandoned” her and our daughter.😢
Ah well, Long time ago…
I greatly enjoyed your essay Tabitha. Thank you so much.
Oh, me? I cum at the drop of a hat! Guess I was born that way. Nipple-gasms, anal-gasms, full body orgasms, never know what’s going to get me off!
But…the build up of desire is a mandatory prerequisite to arousal for me. Especially since I have been “powered” by estrogens rather than testosterones, for nearly thirty years…
A female MD friend of mine likes to say, “Men- arousal, orgasm. Women - desire, arousal, orgasm 😏.
Thanks again Tabitha.
Peace Love Kindness Respect the more you give the more you get 😍 start with yourself 😉 because you deserve it.
