Asked of me on Quora 2/4/2022

Is it okay for me to be gay but not support/agree with transgender people?

Okay? Who's approval are you asking for? You can believe anything you like.

I must say, though, that casting judgement on other people makes me feel bad. Or is it that if I feel bad, I sit in judgement over others to, in some strange way, make myself feel superior?

Perhaps, without even thinking the words in my head, I feel insecure and “less than”, so I judge others to be “wrong” or “not right” in some way, just to give myself a little boost in self-esteem.

If so, I should get to work on finding out why I feel insecure and “less than”, work on healing from that, and leave other people to live their own lives.

What or who other people are is none of my business. When I try to make it my business, it always means that something is wrong with me.

The motivation to judge other people is within myself. There's something wrong with *me* that motivates me to judge others.

I need to get myself right before I look to judge others, and if I get myself right, I'll no longer have any need to judge others who have nothing to do with me.

-When we hate someone, we hate something in them that is also in us. What isn’t in us doesn’t disturb us-
-Hermann Hesse-

--weezi--💜🌈🙏🏼🌻🥳🤠😁

PS: here’s something that might help;

https://youtu.be/l34xGFUfr30
And this;

https://youtu.be/pEq5BeUOWzk