As I’ve shared in twelve step meetings, many times, I agonized nearly all of my adult life over what made me an alcoholic, and what made me trans. Eventually, I came to the only possible conclusion that would allow me a starting point to get on with my life; The “why" of those things is irrelevant. I am, now, today, right this very moment, trans, and alcoholic.

With those absolute certainties, I can start, now, this moment, to deal with both, in the best possible ways.

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