As it’s always been. It’s still not right.

The accepted response, us old folks would tell you, is that,on a date,(if you’re hetero), is for him to come to your house and pick you up. Then you go out on a date. Then he takes you to your home. He may try for a kiss at the door. If he tries to invite himself in, say “no”, unless you’re prepared to have sex with him.

I really don’t want to victim-shame, but a man inviting you up to his apartment, wearing pajamas?

No effing way!

In his mind, simply going into his apartment under those conditions is implied consent.

Yes. It’s not fair. It’s unjust and puts the entire burden on us.

It’s the way it is. Sadly.

Expecting a man to respect boundaries is futile.

I don’t bother with men, at all.

#metoo

I’m so very happy that you weren’t raped, and proud of you for getting the eff outta there!

--weezi--💖🙏🏼💜🙏🏼🦄🥳🎉🥰

Ps; it shouldn’t be that way, but it is…

Pps: I’ve heard that there are good men out there. Men who are considerate, kind, mindful of boundaries, always polite and gentlemanly.

I’ve never met one who wasn’t already taken.