Asked of me on Quora, 23mar,2022 “What is involved in transgender medical healthcare and can it be life saving?” It may only involve the long term help of a liscensed, board certified, clinical psychologist who has experience with the issue at hand. If the psychologist agrees, it may move on…

Asked of me on Quora, 17Mar2022 “Why are people so comfortable with being hateful?” People are very uncomfortable with uncertainty. Taking a simple, direct, “stand" on an issue or cause gives them a sense of certainty. Self-righteous certainty is a simple and direct philosophy. The place where people get set…

Asked of me on Quora, 16Mar,2022 “Homophobia is badly named because homophobic people are not afraid, they are hateful. Agree/Disagree?” They are afraid of themselves. Everyone, though many would never admit it, has some occurrences of homoerotic thoughts or desires, some often, some very rarely. Those who have the highest…

Asked of me on Quora, 14mar2022 “How can a child choose a gender when only four years old?” They don't “choose a gender”, like choosing which piece of candy to pick up from a store shelf. Children see the people around them behaving, relating to others, and moving through life…

Gender Critical? I’ve been on another platform, dispensing wisdom to 'baby trans' people. It occurred to me that the "gender critical" crowd doesn’t seem to be able to see themselves in an objective way. They say that, since some men are dangerously violent, all men are dangerously violent. Therefore, they…

Asked of me on Quora 2/24/2022 “Would a lesbian who refuses to date a trans woman or a gay man who refuses to date a trans man, be transphobic?” Depends on the reason. I, for instance, am only attracted to cis-women. It’s not that I don’t like or am against…

Asked of me on Quora- 20 Feb, 2022. “How do you explain gender dysphoria to a cis person?” It’s like being forced to wear your shoes on the wrong feet. Not that hard to put them on the proper feet, the ones that don’t hurt, but people insist. Doesn’t matter…

Asked of me on Quora, 15 Feb, 2022 “Do you think being transgender is a choice?” My answer: Having your sense of your gender be incongruent with your birth sex is not a choice.As to why it happens, there’s been a lot of research, but as of now, no clear…

Asked of me on Quora, 2/6/2022 “Where do you think all the toxicity in society is coming from these days?” My answer; Fear and confusion because of uncertainty. The fight-or-flight reaction that results causes all kinds of trouble. If everyone worked together to solve the problems that cause the fear…